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Mon 06:29:17 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Tonight, W/we discuss 'toys' and O/our favorites as well as those W/we might like to try, whether VT or RT. Here is the link.

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/g34993309/bdsm-toys/

Mon 06:31:13 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Here is another one, although it is a selling website.

https://toywithme.com/best-bdsm-toys/

Mon 06:58:25 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Entering, seating Myself, waiting for the O/others to arrive*

Mon 06:58:58 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . kneeling on my little fur pillow beside Mistress...snuggles down and grins*

Mon 07:00:06 PM EDT May 10 Dark Velvet . . . *slips quietly into the darkness to watch*

Mon 07:00:39 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . ~entering and finding a seat~

Mon 07:00:46 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . *slip sliding in and finding a seat with a smile*

Mon 07:01:08 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *sitting with Zilla*

Mon 07:01:43 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . &Steps in and finds My way to Rosebloods spot.*

Mon 07:01:44 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Good evening, E/everyone...delighted to see Y/you A/all..so, toys....I have posted a couple of links so that Y/you may see some examples but what are Y/your favorite toys? To use or to have used on you?

Mon 07:02:43 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning... purrring....* mind already raceing with so MANY ideas

Mon 07:02:46 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Good evening LadyGwynethRose.*WS*

Mon 07:02:46 PM EDT May 10 Roseblood . . . Next to him.

Mon 07:04:02 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I am ever a fan of kinetic toys and tools.. floggers, paddles, straps, etc.. and of course.. restraints of varying types as well

Mon 07:04:10 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . i have a 6 foot long black leather dragontail..the handle is braided with purple leather. yup. it's my favorite toy. evil bite. *wicked grin*

Mon 07:04:59 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . **Chuckling* I have the Rose Whip and a nasty little number I call 'Sting' because that is what it does..and leaves some awfully pretty welts, doesn't it, tenderheart dear?

Mon 07:05:05 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . i enjoyed the link you shared... been a long time since i have actually shopped for toys.. ~soft laugh~ and there were some really cool "new" types of toys there to see... i LOVED the rubber bit instead of a ballgag...

Mon 07:05:49 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . mmmmmm wriggles even more....* oohhh yes it does indeed Mistress...and the neat thing is i am posatively sure it IS one of a kind...so its perfect for You to wield

Mon 07:06:20 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . my favorite toy at the moment.. isn't really a "bdsm" toy necessarily... it's a vibrator meant to stimulate the clitoris... The Womanizer.

Mon 07:06:59 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . but seeing as there is a dildo on the page you posted... perhaps it qualifies.. ~giggling~

Mon 07:07:22 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Nodding as I listen...* Do Y/you A/all like the bondage items? Cuffs, ropes, other restraining items?

Mon 07:07:47 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . the good ole Hitachi magic wand...Mr. Hitachi...as i like to call him is a favorite too. it's great for orgasm control. *gringringrin*

Mon 07:07:52 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* the funny thing that i always loved was when W/we went into the adult toy store...looked at what they called "bdsm" toys and then W/we were talking about how since "that" movie came out that people think that play toys in sex shops are toys that A/all use in play....and the fun it was to see that ladys expression when You told her i was Your sub *laughing*

Mon 07:07:52 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Heheheh, lady tiffany, yes indeed I think it would..as would some of the vibes I have seen lately that are 'remote controlled' as it were..

Mon 07:08:31 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . ropes! *enthusiastically bouncing up in Zilla's lap* i love ropes!

Mon 07:09:12 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . laughing* although i still someday hope to find for You to try on me a good vampire glove Mistress

Mon 07:09:23 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . i do...

i actually have a few toys i'm afraid to use... perhaps people could share their experience with them... one is this... set of jade eggs?

Mon 07:09:26 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I do enjoy rope as well.. *smiling at the bouncy one*

Mon 07:10:20 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . I like using ropes as well....and ooooh jade eggs...that sounds just decadent!!

Mon 07:10:27 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Hmmm, Thinks a moment upon things. Mine is among many tings. the guilty pleasure of what Lando so enjoyed. The Clover clamped tit to tit and clamped pussy clamped with the the extra clamp for Me to hold.

Mon 07:10:44 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . i have used ben-wa balls but never jade eggs.

Mon 07:10:50 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning...remembers haveing seen a set of those someplace...

Mon 07:10:58 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . These... ~laughing~.. i'm terrified of them.... https://yonieggjourneys.com

Mon 07:11:34 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . *chuckles*... there is nothing as much fun as a well placed Bluetooth minerature vibrator... IMHO of course.

Mon 07:11:37 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . i have those as well rebecca.. and have not used them for the same reason... i'm afraid i will put them in and not be able to get them out.

Mon 07:11:46 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Mmmm...clamps are such fun, M'Lord Tenrik. I have done zippers before...those are fabulous! How about such things at St. Andrew's Crosses or benches or even cages??? Would those qualify as 'toys'?

Mon 07:12:09 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Grins at My Dark Twin...* I completely agree...so much fun!

Mon 07:12:22 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . ~leaning over and kissing Dark Traveler on the edge of His chin~

Mon 07:12:47 PM EDT May 10 Roseblood . . . flogers and asters hand

Mon 07:13:01 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . i loved the idea of those magnet balls on that site you posted LadyGwynethRose...

Mon 07:13:02 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . *slips in, reading back*

Mon 07:13:21 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* hmmmm in my opinion it seems like that would Mistress...not just for asthetics of trappings but because they are also functional for the fun of the scene just like any other toy

Mon 07:13:36 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Oh yes, they can be so damned much fun and add a few eggs or even an egg that I can control also. Gwyneth.

Mon 07:13:51 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I am presuming the eggs are inserted and then the object is to gain muscular control of them?

Mon 07:14:06 PM EDT May 10 Odysseus . . . so somehow the conversation has moved to benwa balls and yoniballs?

good to know...

Mon 07:14:32 PM EDT May 10 Odysseus . . . greetings all.... moves to the back of the room.

Mon 07:14:48 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . *Just grins to Mine, mmm, oh yes those are very good ones.

Mon 07:15:03 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . i don’t have many toys or typical BDSM implements, since my dynamic is long distance and VT only... but... a WeVibe is controlled via an app from anywhere in the world... *squirms* and i have the most beautiful sparkling princess plug as well.

Mon 07:17:09 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning nods to chrissa...yes expecially with covid i have seen that LOTS of toy companies have moved more towards remote controll etc ...more so then what they were previously developing

Mon 07:17:38 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *eyes to Zilla*

yup. that is the purpose of benwa balls. i had a Dom gift me some...He wanted my pelvic floor muscles strong...for...reasons. *delicate blush*...so it was part of His training of me.

Mon 07:17:42 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . "This Crystal is specially designed to help women connect with their pelvic floor and enhance their overall health and well-being. When our pelvic muscles are firm, they aid us to keep our secret energy under control. That’s how a woman becomes more self-confident and more aware of her body’s limits. The stronger the pelvic muscles, the better the sexual experience."

Mon 07:17:54 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . An outstanding point tenderheart{GRs alpha}.

Mon 07:18:01 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . i won’t complain, tenderheart *giggles with a wink*

Mon 07:18:54 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . *nods listening about the pelvic floor and benefits...*

Mon 07:19:11 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Very interesting. I am aware of Ben Wah balls, but had only come across the eggs in passing, without knowing anything of what they are for.. though my suspicions proved correct..

Mon 07:19:34 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Warm smiles and waves to A/all entering*

Mon 07:20:10 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . nods to chrissa...now this might seem heading more towards the "blade runner" aspect but i saw too that the sex doll industry is developing toys that respond to your wishes..programming or by remote to act ..talk...or do what a P/partner wishes

Mon 07:20:11 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . I have seen some readings that say that ball gags shouldn't be used because of the possibility of choking...what are Y/your thoughts about this little toy?

Mon 07:20:46 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . i loved the tether bondage tape they were selling... it was something you could leave around the house and not fear your kids find it.. ~laughing~... "It's just a roll of tape"

Mon 07:21:32 PM EDT May 10 Odysseus . . . https://www.lovense.com/bluetooth-remote-control-vibrator

this company has a slew of products, I believe this is the more popular one..

Mon 07:21:55 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . My experience with ball gags suggests that Y/you don't want to purchase inexpensive toys... and don't over estimate the size of the submissives mouth in the open position.

Mon 07:22:03 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . I don't like the idea of a ball gag.. but then i have not personally used one...... so i would try it... but i have heard that a submissive could droll around it... just doesn't seem attractive to me.... the bit looked much better as an option...

Mon 07:22:27 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . drool!

Mon 07:22:43 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . tilts my head...hmmm i never have felt that way when You have used one on me Mistress...because i always knew You were in full control of the situation...and always close even when i was blindfolded...although i HAVE in past with those "others" felt that it was something scary becuase they left the house...if i had known better about my rights and etc..i would not have done it..because ther was not even a set up for a safe gesture etc....but to me the way that W/we commuicate and set up a scene and my trust in You that i do enjoy ballgags

Mon 07:22:53 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . For gags I prefer bar type gags, as they do not fit so tightly against lips, while they do still act as gags. Less chance of accidentally choking.. though nothing is 100% foolproof..

Mon 07:24:02 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *like ball gags...and drooling can be sexy*

Mon 07:24:10 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *likes

Mon 07:24:31 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . althought too with a big gag...i remember One who used to come here in the past...She was a horse trainer...so She was able to have rope...bits...brushes...bondage leg tape...*LOL* becuase of her profession...so i have the opinion that lots of things can be fun toys to use

Mon 07:24:39 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Nodding thoughtfully at the answers. * I saw that rope seems to be a favorite...has A/anyone done Shibari? If so, how did that make Y/you feel?

Mon 07:25:36 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . looks up at Mistress...for instance...the SAM brush that W/we purchased at a local anitque mall...or finding school paddles or frat paddles or even pingpong ones at a dollar store *LOL* so to me a toy is only in the mind of the U/user and how its played with

Mon 07:26:35 PM EDT May 10 the wolf pup . . . *pads in quietly and takes a seat*

Mon 07:26:36 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . scratches my head...i think there is an amazon book called "bdsm" on a budget *lol*

Mon 07:26:52 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . Japanese rope bondage is an art form.

Mon 07:27:26 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . Good evening pup... *whispers*

Mon 07:27:38 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . I so agree there Dark Traveler. I just use My own on that aspect. If one cant handle what I truly have then they cant handle the Ball gag.

Mon 07:27:59 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I enjoy shibari.. and I am in the process of learning some of its forms ad patterns..

Mon 07:28:24 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . i am a regular rope model for a rope Top in rt...Wwe do Kinbaku. it is sublime.

Mon 07:28:25 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . i thought some bit types were bad for teeth?

Mon 07:28:27 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Warm smiles to pup* So, I am hearing some likes about toys...what about dislikes? What WON'T Y/you use or have used on you?

Mon 07:30:10 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . thinks for a moment...most toys i am up for...because i have a deep trust in You and knowing me so well Mistress...however because of that past incident when i was essentially double "raped" by strapons...i am a bit gunshy about haveing one used on me....

Mon 07:31:32 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Well put LadyGwynethRose. What dont those like?

Mon 07:31:40 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . those metal nipple clamps... forget what they are called...

Mon 07:32:01 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . i don't like canes.

Mon 07:32:44 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . clover clamps...hate those

Mon 07:32:59 PM EDT May 10 the wolf pup . . . *smiles and bows head in greet to A/all not wanting to disturb*

Mon 07:33:33 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . What makes rope bondage Shibari?
Three things.

It must be beautiful.
It must be effective.
It must have a Japanese aesthetic.

Mon 07:33:33 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Hello there wolf pup, please do add.

Mon 07:35:50 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Awe, clover clamps and a good caning way back in 2001.

Mon 07:35:51 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . In much the same way as Japanese wood joinery..

Mon 07:36:36 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Not a fan of electricity.. either in using or having used or even in seeing used..

Mon 07:37:01 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . The difference between Shibari and Kinbaku is that while Shibari is the art of bondage tying, Kinbaku is the use of this art in a sexual direction. Today, BDSM practices have been known to take their roots in Kinbaku.

just saying.

Mon 07:37:35 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *nodding as I listen* Has A/anyone E/else here but Me used a sjambok?

Mon 07:37:46 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . Fire play... way too dangerous.

Mon 07:38:13 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* SO wishing i could have seen Mistress wield such a implament

Mon 07:38:24 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . oooh what's that Lady Rose?

Mon 07:39:33 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I have used a Sjambok, but not in a sexual or even BDSM way... they are a highly effective weapon

Mon 07:39:39 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . It's this, rebecca..

http://www.bullwhipsquadron.org/sjambok/

Mon 07:39:45 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . The sjambok or litupa is a heavy leather whip. It is traditionally made from an adult hippopotamus or rhinoceros hide, but is also commonly made out of plastic.

Mon 07:39:58 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Yes indeed, M'Lord Zilla...they surely are...

Mon 07:40:14 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *peeking at the link...grinning as i do so*

Mon 07:40:30 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . *personally hates plastic toys*....

Mon 07:41:31 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Grinning as I listen* Okay, W/we have discussed things W/we like and things W?we don't like...how about things W/we would like to try?

Mon 07:41:47 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . smiles* i think it depends on the toy used M'Lord Dark Traveler...Mistress has a lexon cane that is VERY ..pardon the pun..whippy and flexable that leaves one HELL of a great badge...

Mon 07:41:49 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . cupping! i want to try cupping!

Mon 07:42:47 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . hmmmm a good heavy carpet beater...

Mon 07:43:18 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Grins at rebecca..* I can remember My Grandmother, God/dess rest Her soul, teaching Me about cupping..

Mon 07:43:45 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Looks at tenderheart..* don't you get enough badges from that fraternity paddle?

Mon 07:43:52 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* just please say no leaching Mistress * lol*

Mon 07:44:27 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* ohhh i Do love that frat paddle Mistress :D *lol* just everytime W/we antique i think of getting You one to try out *lol*

Mon 07:44:39 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . I want to get better with rope and other bindings.. and also with the softer or lighter impact toys..

Mon 07:45:52 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . How M/many here have tried edging?

Mon 07:46:06 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . LadyGwynethRose, for Me it raised so much with Grandfathers whisking that weight upon another that got My interests so high.

Mon 07:46:11 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *raises hand*

Mon 07:46:17 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . I don't care for leeches anyway, tenderheart, so I won't use them..unless, of course, I was doing microsurgery for some reason which I won't do...so..okay, let's see...M'Lord Zilla wants to improve His roping techniques, rebecca would like to try cupping...tenderheart wants Me to lacerate his bottom, apparently...A/any O/others?

Mon 07:46:52 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . edging is my life. *laughing*

Mon 07:47:25 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . you have experienced a wicked life chrissa... *smiling darkly*

Mon 07:47:40 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Raises hand as well. Damned straight in total edgings.

Mon 07:47:41 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Please speak out, rebecca..and that would be Me, My Dark Twin Brother...edging can be such FUN!

Mon 07:48:03 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . it’s the best and worst at the same exact time, Sir. As of now, it’s been 8 days of no release. *squirm*

Mon 07:48:16 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning* nodding my head at Mistresses words

Mon 07:49:10 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . yah...edging is fantastic. *flush of a lovely pink shade coloring my face*

Mon 07:49:18 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . you must be ready to burst chrissa... how wonderful... *smiles very darkly*

Mon 07:49:33 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . there is ONE toy that i once saw in a video that i would LOVE to find for You to try out on me Mistress...it was a scotish kilt brush...it literally was a banaster brush as wide and long as a cricket bat *lol*

Mon 07:49:34 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . *pitiful mewl*

Mon 07:51:43 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . *Grinning to tenderheart...* That sounds like a good time...

Mon 07:52:37 PM EDT May 10 rebecca . . . *quietly slipping out as rt calls...grateful nod to Lady Rose for hosting the discussion*

Mon 07:54:19 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Have a good night lovely *smiling as she departs*

Mon 07:54:25 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . I see the time is growing short...does A/anyone have anything further to add? Again, I am enlightened by O/other's V/viewpoints...*Warm smiles*

Mon 07:54:47 PM EDT May 10 the wolf pup . . . be well bex

Mon 07:55:34 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Edging is the practice of getting oneself aroused almost to the point of release and then stopping, correct?

Mon 07:56:21 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Correct, M'Lord Zilla..either Yourself or...*dimpled grin* someone else..

Mon 07:56:44 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . Oneself or another.... to hold at the peak of need... and then withhold release.

Mon 07:57:29 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Damned tenderheart, that sure was a good come on to that one! Nore than even I could do.

Mon 07:58:31 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler . . . Another glorious evening LadyGwynethRose. And very much appreciated.

Mon 07:58:34 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Well put there zilla.

Mon 07:58:45 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Interesting.. Might need to do that to one, one of these days..

Mon 07:58:59 PM EDT May 10 Dark Traveler`s lady tiffany . . . Thank you LadyGwynethRose.. *s*

Mon 07:59:13 PM EDT May 10 Zilla . . . Thank you for hosting, LadyGwynethRose

Mon 07:59:29 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Thank Y/you A/all so much...I appreciate Y/you A/all..

Mon 07:59:31 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . smiles and looks up at M'Lady ...as ever so fun and insightfull Mistress

Mon 08:00:28 PM EDT May 10 Tenrik . . . Agrees with Dark Traveler. Another wel put night Gwyneth. I do tank You so much for these great nights.

Mon 08:01:45 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . Thank Y/you A/all..I cannot do it without Y/you and Y/your involvement..*Eyes crinkling into a smile*

Mon 08:02:12 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . grinning again...looking up to see that dazzleing smile of Mistresses*

Mon 08:02:15 PM EDT May 10 -chrissa- . . . thank You, Lady Gwyneth Rose!

Mon 08:02:25 PM EDT May 10 the wolf pup . . . thank You for Hosting

Mon 08:02:36 PM EDT May 10 LadyGwynethRose . . . And now, tenderheart...W/we must go to reality...*Rising and waving, blowing kisses to A/all and gone, tugging tenderheart's leash...*

Mon 08:03:02 PM EDT May 10 tenderheart{GRs alpha} . . . following behind Mistress waves to A/all and departs to RL

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